Cemetery Etiquette

Cemetery Etiquette

Attending a funeral service requires sensitivity towards those who are grieving, but knowing how to do so can sometimes be unclear. What should you say? What is appropriate to wear? Is it customary to bring a gift? How can you offer support?


We aim to make you feel comfortable and at ease while you're at our cemetery. Here are some guidelines to help you navigate these moments respectfully and contribute to maintaining the dignity of these sacred grounds.

Visiting the Cemetery

Here are some of the Dos and Don’ts for visiting Murdoch Funeral Homes cemetery.

DO:

  • Watch over children to ensure their safety.
  • Follow our cemetery guidelines.
  • Respect cemetery visiting hours.
  • Follow the marked roadways.
  • Be respectful by keeping quiet around visitors who wish to reflect.

DONT’S:

  • Take photos of other visitors or funerals.
  • Litter.
  • Walk over graves.
  • Disturb flowers or plants on the grounds.

Showing Support

There are no definitive right or wrong ways to show support. Simply attending the funeral service is a meaningful gesture. Additionally, sharing memories and stories about the deceased can be a comforting way to support the family. You might also consider offering support through thoughtful gestures, such as sending flowers, cards, food, books, or personalized gifts that honor the memory of the loved one. For more tips on offering support, visit our section on grief support. To find beautiful gifts, check out our store.

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